May 2, 2010

Potty Training = SUCCESS!!!

Soooo proud of Jeremiah!!! I was thinking I should wait till Jeremiah showed an interest in going to the potty, but those times have been slim to none. So today I thought I'd just do it. Serious Potty Training has officially begun! So I explained to him this morning that he was just gonna wear underpants instead of diapers all day, and thanks to Goofy and his "pineapple underpants", Jeremiah was all for it. On a side note, I hope I find some pineapple underpants for him cause he would go crazy over them! haha.

Anyway, I had him go about every hour...and sure enough, he went! And each time he went to the potty he would get more & more excited that he actually did it! Mid day I added the cheerios for him to aim at just so he wouldn't get bored. That went off well too! The only accident was nap time- which was totally my fault! I knew I should have put a pull-up on him, but I just brushed it off. Sure enough, he and daddy woke up from their nap in a wet bed! (Lesson learned for mommy!) After I gave him a bath he was all revved up to continue the potty training. We even went to Target for some shopping with no accidents!

The next two days are gonna be a challenge though...the kids are staying at Grandma's so I can study for finals. I'm hoping Jeremiah will be able to remind them that he needs to go to the potty. I'm not too worried, he did make it a point to tell me he needed to use the potty even after he had his nighttime pull-ups on. *fingers crossed*

This was definitely a big day! I'm soo proud of him & made it a point to tell him that all day long.

April 28, 2010

our drive home from grandma's

I love our drives home from Lolo & Grandma's house because usually the kids are really talkative. Our conversation today started w/ nature. Miah: Nature! Me: Nature? you like nature, Miah? Miah: ya! Nature is aaaaallll around us!

Jeremiah likes to talk about a lot of things on the way home, usually about what he sees. He likes to look for airplanes because Uncle Rey is ALWAYS on the plane that is in the sky. I had to point out the plane today cause he couldn't find one. When he saw it he said "Der it is Mommy! Der's da pwane! Da pwane is taking Uncle Rey to Can..an..da, Mommy?" I just had to start laughing! Then Em started laughing, and eventually Miah chimed in with his laugh.

Another great ride home full of memories! :D

April 22, 2010

potty at Costco

I haven't been really potty training Miah because he seems to only be occasionally interested in going pee-pee in the potty, but two weekends ago we were at Costco, where, by the way we just recently renewed our membership after 6 years (YAY!), and out of nowhere he says, "Mommy! I need to go (#2)!" So I excitedly asked him if he wanted to go to the potty and surprisingly he said yes!

So, I quickly grabbed him out of the cart & left Jenner & Emma to finish shopping. Miah and I rushed to the restroom, all the while me telling him not to go and him saying "ok, mommy, ok, let's go! let's go!"

Luckily there was a stall open and sure enough, he went pee in the potty! I was so proud of him and kept telling him that he was doing a good job and he nodded in agreement with excitement on his face. So after we washed hands I told him that from now on he would have to tell me when he needs to go so we could go to the potty. Ya, that didn't happen. I don't know why he had the urge to tell me in Costco, but at home it's a different story!

Well, at least I know it can be done & there is hope to potty training him. Just hoping it's sooner than not! :D

April 6, 2010

My Lola Agripina



My Lola's death anniversary was on the 6th. I miss her so much! Six years have gone by & I still cry like it was yesterday. Anyway, the following was my eulogy that I said at one of her wakes. I wanted to post it on my blog so I wouldn't lose it...


My Lola was an incredible woman. She knew everything that went on within the family even if we tried to keep it a secret from her. Like when our relatives would come to visit from the Philippines, Canada or New Jersey…somehow she would know they were coming. I’m convinced her being hard of hearing was a trick. I think she just pretended that she couldn’t hear us so that she could find things out. She was a very smart woman.

She also had a good memory…even in her old age. There would be times when I would visit her in the hospital and my mom and manong rex would try to tease me and tell me to ask my lola if she remembered me. I would get mad at them and and tell them, ”I don’t need to ask…she knows who I am!”

When she had first started getting sick I remember sitting with her in her room and she started talking to me about her dying and for me not to mourn her too much and to not cry too much because she would be in a better place. She told me she wasn’t scared to die and that it would be better for her so she wouldn’t be suffering. She said she had done everything that she wanted to do and that she was ready to go. Of course my response was, “No Lola, you’re not going yet!” It hurt me to hear her say things about her dying…but at the same time it comforted me. It eased some of the pain because I knew she was ready and at peace with the thought of going to heaven.

Lola was always trying to look out for me…even when she was sick. Everytime her condition would get worse she would remind me that her death was coming soon…then she would start trying to marry me off. She would say, “Why don’t you settle now?” Caught off guard, I would try every excuse I had to try to convince her that that wasn’t ideal at that time, but she would always look at me with a frown on her face and a solution to my excuse. Like I would tell her, “I need to finish school first, Lola” and to my surprise she’d say, “Why? You can still go to school and be married!” Then I’d try the I don’t have money excuse, and suddenly she became my financial planner. She’d ask me how much I was making and how much I had left over after I paid my bills. Sometimes I would exaggerate and add to the amount just to see what she would say…then her eyes would light up and she would say, “Oh, good!” Then she’d start counting with her fingers and say, “Then you can save (this much) in (however) many months.” I would always laugh and she’d look at me so seriously. It was not even a week before she died that she gave me her last “You should now settle” speech. She told me she wanted me to get married already so that she knew I would be taken care of. It’s hard to know that she will not be there when that time does come. But I know she will watch over me and make sure I am taken care of…married or not.

I think what I’m gonna miss most about Lola is how she would tell me that she loved me. When it would be time to leave after visiting her I would tell her that I was going and she’d always tell me thank you for visiting her as if I were a stranger…then I’d tell her I love her and she would smile and her voice would soften and she’d say, “I love you,too!” so sweetly. After she passed away that was the only thing I thought of when I closed my eyes to sleep.

My Lola was and always will be my hero. Her quiet strength and her strong faith in God are just a few of the values that I have learned from her. I believe the reason she lived such a long and full life was because of her strong faith. She would say her prayers in the morning and say the rosary in the evening and then say her prayers before she slept. I remember when I was younger and we were still living in the navy housing…she would put me in bed turn off the lights and then turn on the night light so I wouldn’t be scared. Then she’d kneel next to my bed and pray the rosary. I remember she would recite the rosary in ilocano…and the rosary she had used back then smelled like roses. Luckily I found a rosary that smells just like my lola’s , so everytime I pray the rosary I am reminded of her and that night I stayed up to watch her pray.

Lola, I will always keep my memories of you in a safe place deep in my heart and the values I have learned from you will forever be a part of my life. I love you soo much and I miss you dearly.

March 30, 2010

huevos

this past weekend we made our bimonthly (if not weekly) trip to Henry's (btw, I love Henry's! we can fill up our cart full of veggies and fruit and get everything for less than $20! haha) so, i had both kids in the cart-Miah was illegally riding in the big part of the cart-and i stopped to check out the eggs. a man was nearby with a cart and a stroller with a baby, he seemed to be waiting for his wife, i'm suspecting. anyway, so as i'm looking at the eggs a woman comes by with her son in the cart and the boy points at the eggs and the mother says, "ooh! este es huevos!" telling her son that those are the eggs. so, Miah sees and hears the mom say this and makes an angry face and as the mother and boy pass us, he says angrily, "hey, i no huevos!" It took me like 2 seconds to realize what he said and I chuckled and told him that she was just telling him that those are the eggs! LOL. Then I look over to see if the man heard what he said and he kinda chuckled and said, "haha, that was cute!"

March 23, 2010

FINALLY!!!

Yay! Emma's first tooth is finally starting to coming out! Finally! She's already 18 1/2 mos and they're just barely coming out now. haha. She's getting so big & learning new words everyday. She even knows what makes us laugh and is always so happy!

Jeremiah has learned to navigate the web! I made him his own account on the computer and set up his favorites, like Thomas the Train, Mickey Mouse, Word World, just to name a few. It's so hard to get him off just to eat dinner, but he's learning lots so I'm not really concerned. Maybe he'll grow up to be a computer whiz, we'll see! :D